Wow, What A Weekend, So Crazy

 

The Scenic Railway at Luna Park, Melbourne, is the world's oldest continually-operating rollercoaster, built in 1912. (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

I had such a roller coaster amazing weekend.  Nothing I did was on time but turned out well.  I am totally shocked.  From waiting like 30 minutes on the check out line in Pathmark for food, to not getting up in time to go to the movies, to reaching to my music video shoot for someone over an hour late, the weekend turned out pretty well.  I must say, this weekend has been one of the best ever for 2012.  I want to see more crazy fun and cool weekends such as this.  I am back intact with my busy life, and people are calling me again.  Surely they must have money, for all the work they want me to do, I have to kindly charge them.  I just want to thank GOD and everyone out there that supports and take the time to comment, tweet me or even take a peak at my videos, it’s crazy out there.  How was your weekend?  Any big plans for the week or are you dreading the new start of the week?

Let a comment, fill me in, share your thoughts and opinions…Thanks

Thanks for reading
Richardo Wilson

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Life in Your Twenties

Charlie Chaplin The Tramp debuted in 1914 -- pre-1923 (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

 

There is something that we all go through in our twenties, and it’s make a drastic decision on what we planning to do before 30.  It’s not intention but after all our trial and errors, wins and failures we latch onto to something and we go with it.  We do at times try to battle against the grain to pursue that one thing we always wanted or dreamed of, but to get it requires a certain element we search high and low for, and sometimes is simple as a backing from a friend or family to lend encourage.  Do you feel I am right about this?  What’s one of the main goals you went after or think you will go after in your twenties?

I break it down to couple of choices we go after or just randomly continue via it has worked for us and it’s the only thing we can rely on.  Most all people in the world focus on one of these core elements:

1. Career/Accomplishment
2. Education
3. Love vs Loneliness
4. Family, Marriage and Babies

It might sound very general and common knowledge but really it’s just facts we created.  If you had a baby before your twenties or early out of your teenage years, mostly likely you are missing a few things like LOVE (because the baby father was not who you thought he was) and you battle loneliness trying to seek a great partner to make life with, while dwelling your every moment to raise your child and better their opportunities that you didn’t have.  Also you lust for the education as you know have to worry about finances that create a barrier into education gain.

If you haven’t accomplish much or have a lost for incredible highlights from your high school years into college, you are most likely fight the grain trying to accomplish something you only have dreams of.  Such things as being a business owner, a model, a singer, a rapper, and many other accolades that you feel will define you and keep your spirits on high.  But most of the time is spent wasting away from jobs and avoiding or having very bad relationships, while your education is lacking or feel you need a boost to elevate your success rate.  So you duck much things such as family, marriage and babies until you have created this winning streak with merit.

Some people are hell-bent on education, for education justifies them as a person in society or they hold to high standard to define their worth.  So forget love, forget babies, and marriage, for it’s a narrow focus on hinting those books, making those marks and steadily finishing their time as if it was a jail sentence.

Then we have the countdown clock, the score board as you may, that family, babies, legacy beats all even if you or because you didn’t accomplish a righteous career or education, you a strapped in wanting something of your own.  A claim of you, a child, a husband/love, a marriage a oneness you feel no one can break but GOD if it righteous, we pursue a stable.  We settle for what we have and do with what we have got, because love and a family beats all to you.

Many of what I have said is based of culture, people, religion, social status, family structure and belief in self, that decide the road we take as a person in our twenties.  The pressure of the social norms or the reflection and comparison we stake against other around us shape our well-being.  That friend you thought was talentless, that girl who got a good man but not education but you wanted a good man, that rap or modeling career that never took off, but you can’t help but think about it every time to surf the Internet or watch TV, think that could be or could have been me.

Our twenties it what defines our angle to fruit life, a life of dream catching  and/or conforming.

We weren’t prepare and can’t be prepared for every twist and turn in our lives, but we make our decisions, here and now, and strive for the best.  Hello twenties, how are you?

What are your thoughts of your twenties?  What are you seeking for?  Do you agree with this post?  Lend and share your input and opinions.

Thanks for reading
Richardo Wilson

PS: Due to its length, I really appreciate if you read this all the way through, and totally feel you should drop a ( smiley face in the comments) as kudos for a post you went through.

Thanks again.

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The Weird Things In Life

 

Cocoa Puffs (Photo credit: Wikipedia)

I live an awkward life. Many don’t understand or try to set a logic or something tangible on the things I do. I don’t know why, but I guess that’s how life and what people tend to do to understand things. I hate categories, except for blog categories, I think I tag well and don’t try to over do it. Do you feel like me and people try to judge your every step? Wonder why you do things when it’s just something you wanted to do or experiment doing?

I like the weird things in life. I like to try weird things. Most of what won’t ever cause harm to anyone, so why should it matter that I do it? I pour my milk in my bowl before my cereal, and so what…but my brother thinks that’s weird. I look at him like, dude, it’s my cereal, I am going to mix it up when I am ready to eat, plus I like the crunch. Off topic what’s your favorite cereal? Mines is Raisin Bran when I want the healthy side and the fiber, hmmm but Captain Crunch and Coco Puffs. You got to love it.

Back to the weird stuff. I believe life is a combination of living and be the best you, you can be. That’s experimenting and developing as time goes by. Here goes another confession, I love sexy women and their bodies, because I look at a women’s body as art. From head to toe, not everyone is the same. I pay attention to very minor details others don’t see. So when out in NYC I like to look at everyone and everything, but a sexy lady would catch my attention. Being a photographer it comes with perks, via I can see what they can’t in themselves and when I take people’s photos I tend to show them, the best of them that’s they never thought is there. Some may say that’s being perverted, stalker-ish, or I stare. I don’t think I stare, but I look long enough to paint the image in my photographic memory bank.

I can sleep in multiple combinations in various spaces, again my brother feels that’s so weird I can adapt and adjust to my surrounding that easily. Have anyone seen you do things and find you weird via you doing so? I consider it to be unique and great for an interesting conversation in which I am having with you right now.

Let’s continue the conversation, drop me a comment on your thoughts, opinions, and things about you that is weird or you find weird about others.

Also you can always, always chit chat with my on twitter at @Rawmultimedia. Follow me. I love to talk with others.

Thanks for reading
Have a great day…

Richardo Wilson

My Addiction: Questions

Reference Book Collection (Photo credit: Jordanhill School D&T Dept)

I can admit it.  I have addictions.  Do you have any?  Let me know.  I am addicted to asking questions.  Not as much as you think, but I just don’t like gray areas.  So if I am unsure I will ask.  I tend to ask questions people don’t normally ask.  I dig deep and ask thought-provoking questions.

My questions are so good.  That it will have you thinking, like damn…I don’t know how to answer.

Anyways, that’s one of my addictions.  What are some of yours.  Let in know in the comments, or tweet me on twitter.

Thanks for reading,
Richardo Wilson

I’m on Twitter: @Rawmultimedia

Excited To Be Alive

 

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As my mother said, “some of us are put on this earth to bear a burden and others are just set here to live”, I am not exactly sure if that’s the exact words she used but, the point is that some of us struggle all our lives and others live carefree with no trouble in the world.  The carefree people live to use, abuse, and leave burdens on others while the others struggle trying to make themselves better, and hit with all the pressure and downfalls that comes with life.

Mostly the ones that struggle are the creative artists, and kind-hearted people of the world, but it’s how they can transform their hardships into a meaningful lifestyle or let go and do the right thing that is the major challenge.  Unfortunately I am in the category of a struggling artist and the person that is hit with all the burdens and responsibilities in life, but at the end of the day, I am happy to be living.

I try to help others no matter how difficult or how bad I feel, because I am alive, and I have love in my heart and I am able to breathe air out of my lungs.  I don’t need much from the world but the chance to live and help others be something I probably won’t be able to be.  It’s also good to find others struggling or thinking of giving up on the world and tag team to success.  It’s possible, so just try, and keep trying and love yourself for trying.  It will be worth wild one day, even if the one day is not tomorrow.

So stop hating the world, or the carefree people who fill the world, just be glad that you are alive and in it.  It actually really matters and you contribute to the goodness of life.  Think about it.

Are you a carefree person?  Are you living a struggling life?  What are you doing to change that situation or helping overcoming that problem?

Thanks for reading
Richardo Wilson

No Validation: I Just Want To Be FREE

Cover of My Life

I live life with crazy action pack sequences synced into a body of multiple characters that work hard all day everyday, and still look at life with a positive outlook.  I don’t need others to verify or validate what it is I do, the lack of sleep, how I prioritize my approach on life and/or getting things done, because I am the one doing them, not them.  I been in a confined area locked from opportunity half of my life (being too young, being dependent on others), and once I saw that to break free I had to be the true me and have everything comes from me, the quicker I learned and became a better me.

I know I have loved ones, family, friends, special people in my life that cares and look out for my best interests, but I feel they have not walked in my shoes as yet or really truly understand why I do things a certain way.  It’s about the fulfillment of life and breathing the air out of your lungs and feeling in control of how you are perceived.  They haven’t seen what I have seen or step past their limits to break new grounds or being more open minded, instead of settling and saying it’s ok, we can pass on them, or sit around and wait for a change to come.  It took up to college and lots of reading of articles (books are so darn long for my fast paced lifestyle to read), and conditioning myself from psychology to logic to philosophy that created my new form of thinking.  Do I want to create and achieve, or do I want to wait and collect?  I don’t believe in hand outs and waiting to be seen being me if I know what I am doing it actually  how I feel and that I am aware of the consequences.  I am pro-active and live a realist life, that I know my limits based on me breaking them to constantly know how much more I can do.

I am aware or my surroundings, and in depth viewpoint to the world from many directions and perspectives.  For example, the lack of sleep will cause your body to shut down, or not get to grow to a certain amount, and even worse, or as my mother said it’s going to make you look too old before your time.  Know so I willing continued on my path to be someone in the world.  I want to live, feel, become more, to myself and others.  It’s more of a giving notion by going to give and receive.  So maybe one day, someone will ask, how did you accomplish this, what processes and transformation did you have to go through to reach a certain level.

I tend read and watch it being said in books, articles, and movies that we don’t use the full potential of our brain or we simply can’t or have the potential to.  So I would ask who are setting these rules and these standards on what we can’t do?  I hate the word/phase “I Can’t“, I usually asked the person who says so: “Who is stopping you? Have you even tried?  How many times have you tried? What were the results of each encounter, gain or failure or always the same results?”  Living life is like an experiment on what works and what doesn’t, and each formula or method to result to an answer is not always the same.  We tend to not challenge ourselves in our normal lifestyle to see how we can develop or stretch our muscles and means of accomplishments.  So I ask, if someone is to acquire greatness, he/she cannot be simple, he/she cannot fear failure, he/she won’t be the same as others. It’s just a simple rule in life, that all great things in life we all can’t acquire because we all don’t want it as bad and suffer to reach the goal, but just wants the benefits.

“If it was that easy for everyone to be great, we would all be the same, achieve the same things, and in realization we would all be the norm once again, because there would be no one better or doing something different.”

If I were to die tomorrow, I would have known I lived an unique life, I would have reached a higher level and challenged myself endlessly to see what I did on my own and how I have developed myself and dedicated a lifestyle to achieve and believe in me and be free, and with that, I need no validation, I am me, so I ask who are you?

Thanks for reading
Richardo

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